67管明鄭昺林 – found!

[nicholas]

頂好就是我家!!!

[徐少康]

有 7-11 真好

[張紹康]

看霹靂
到全家


網路看到的！

[張紹康]

真是可惜！美國小孩這一點真的比較不會調適！聽了都很心痛！

Palo Alto (api 904)
我都不知mission san jose high (api 931)或
cupertino monta vista (api 923) 的台灣高中學生怎麼辦？

我也是放牛吃草 能四育並重 是比智育重要！還好我家二楞子
傻傻的 每天都很開心！謝天謝地！

In the city I work (Palo Alto), there are a lot of kids jump right front of trains to kill themselves because they can't deal with the pressure.

[康瑞玲]

It's really sad to see young kids take their own lives….I will never put my child in Cupertino schools where there are a lot of competition from parents/students.
Grade is not the most important thing in life and definitely not the only thing. As long as our kids are happy, grow up to be decent adults; with kind hearts & respect for others.

[康瑞玲]

This is completely off track of the original subject-

Here’s how I find works best for my son who is a 8th grader now:
1. It's his home work not mine. I've done my share of school and it's his education not mommy's.
2. I'll provide all the help if he needs it. I flunk math from 1st grade all the way to college so once a while he gets a tutor if he needs additional help.
3. No video games during school week, he can play video games on weekend till his thumbs fall off.
4. For each report card, he gets $5.00 for A, $3.00 for B. He will pay back $3.00 for C and $5.00 for D. If he gets a F he will be grounded and will never see the sunlight (just kidding) but extra bonus for straight As. So he tries to get all As because he loves the money, but he is just as happy with B average and so am I.
5. For each missing homework (that he forgets). He will be grounded for a month-no video game, no TV, no computer, no phone, nada! So far he has been grounded twice since 6th grade, he absolutely hates it. Now he figures out if he does his homework everybody or get the project started early, he doesn't have to worry about forgetting his homework. And mommy doesn't have to hide in her room to watch TV.

Of course every kid is individual and different. We just have to find what works the best for them and for the insanity of parents too. So...what works for your kids?

[張紹康]

謝謝學姊分享的管教計劃！值得我學習！

請容我分享一下自己的角度
我們的小孩成熟度比較晚 現在九年級但還是像小學生一樣
先撇開學業不談 （真沒4.0 大概33.88吧 看他每天3388的！ 不過也有拿歐巴馬獎狀一張啦！）

當然首重的就是煙 酒 藥 賭 偷 搶 騙 講髒話 有倨傲無禮態度 等操行教育了！這不必贅言

再來 其實我們比較關心"獨子"的生活習慣！
因為他長大出門後 這一切都會跟著他一輩子啦！
從小養成作家事的訓練
洗碗 吸地 洗馬桶 洗車 洗衣服 推垃圾...
只要我想到 剛好他有空 一定找他一起做

下一步就是要教他煮菜了 認真的！不開玩笑！

我們自己也不是像這許許多多先後期同學那麼會念書（嚇我一大跳）
也沒有想他上什麼名校 賺什麼大錢
只希望我們給他的生活教育能讓他將來在賺錢溫飽之餘
有足夠的生活能力 獨立生活 進而照顧他自己的家庭
做一位人見人愛的好男人 如此而已！我不是幫他把準媳婦都找好了？

不過說歸說做歸做 有沒有辦法如我們所願 關鍵還是在他自己啊！
真是盡人事 聽天命噢！大家不同意我 也沒關係 請不要太認真啦！
反正 這個教孩子人人有一套 請大家看看就算了！大家平安！大家平安！

[康瑞玲]

Well said!

[徐少康]

我沒有發言權，可是我有認真讀
子女的教育，父母陪著他們一同成長
制定出一套規則，然後一起遵守
父母與子女,像是同心協力去完成一場
合作無間、精彩絕倫的球賽
各位，你們贏定了
為你們辛勤的付出
喝采

[Jasmine]

謝謝學姊分享的管教計劃！值得我學習！

從小養成作家事的訓練
洗碗 吸地 洗馬桶 洗車 洗衣服 推垃圾...
只要我想到 剛好他有空 一定找他一起做
這個好..繼續教.....
下一步就是要教他煮菜了 認真的！不開玩笑！快一點教......